Many moms feel this way, like something is 'missing.' They want more, love, passion, peace, happiness and joy....They feel dis-connected from their children, not to mention themselves, on this sometimes confusing parenting journey.
I know these feelings well, because I felt this way for many years.....isolated, depressed......'half' living my life. Going through the motions but not really LIVING.
And that's why I'm writing to you today...
You're a mother. Perhaps you stay at home with your children, or maybe you have a full-time job and your children are in school. You might be a single mom with young kids, or a married mother of three. Whatever the case, you may be experiencing what I call "Mommy burnout." This results not only from raising a family, but taking care of a spouse, partner, parent and possibly even friends.
Like many women, maybe you're feeling overwhelmed and frustrated you have so much to do; yet you feel bored and unfulfilled somehow. You're surrounded by people, though a part of you feels lonely and perhaps even a little depressed.
You may be feeling conflicted by wanting to be the best mother, but needing a break; time away from your family.
Click PLAY to listen to a very important message from Ashley Ryan, founder of The Busy Moms Guide to Awesome Parenting.
feel tired, burnt-out, stressed and cranky from spending too much time at work and not enough with time your child;
stay at home but are not fully there;
feel somewhat anxious or depressed, in spite of being a committed mother that does her best as much as possible;
feel alone and undervalued after putting forth your best and getting little in return;
find yourself over-doing it; you often feel depleted by the myriad demands upon you, in spite of your best efforts;
feel like other responsibilities always come before doing the things that you really want to do, the things that you long for, but don't have the time, energy, or money to do;
long for a deeper and more authentic connection with your children and family, but don't know how to get it, and no matter how hard you try, you always end up 'messing' it up;
question yourself about saying the right things to your children, doubting yourself, and wondering how you 'could,' 'should' or 'would' have done it better;
experience frequent bouts of doubt and insecurity as to how to relate to your child and whether what you're doing is actually working.
If you're having any of these experiences the good news is you're not alone. Women everywhere are feeling this way; this certainly was my own experience.
Most of us spend a large chunk of our time trying our best, doing whatever we can for those we love, especially our children. However, many of us feel that we fall short of making any difference to others and ourselves.
This is how I felt: like I was living someone else's life, a life that I didn't fully sign up for. Motherhood is supposed to be an exciting and joyful experience; what I was experiencing was stress and overwhelm; not to mention a load of guilt.
What you're experiencing may not be as extreme as what I went through; maybe you haven't gone through a divorce or dealt with depression. Maybe it's as simple as feeling disconnected from your child or disconnected from yourself.
You may feel disconnected from your children, overloaded and burdened. You may be so focused on your kids that your marriage is on the rocks. You could be doing all the right 'things' but still feel empty and alone.
are busy being everything for everyone and feel exhausted and burnt out...
feel overwhelmed and reactive to your child and those close to you...
would like to spend more time with your children, but you're so busy, cooking, cleaning and working that you don't have the time...
are constantly frustrated and stuck trying to make your relationship with your child work, but it doesn't...
would like to experience a richer and more fulfilling life but don't know how...
sometimes nag or punish your child and then instantly regret it...
feel tired of using punishment, rewards and manipulation to get your child to behave...
are nervous about the teenage years and who your child might become...
...then you'll want to join me for my 7-Week Course.
Do You Ever Feel Like You're on This Parenting Journey Alone?
Do you feel an Emptiness, even though you're surrounded by people and constantly 'busy'?
The course calls are held once a week for 7 weeks.
Here, I'll guide you step-by-step through the process of connecting with your heart to find inspiration and balance, at the same time nurturing a great relationship with your child.
"A perfect guide for mom and mom to grow with their kids."
Sanchaita Khajuria; New Delhi, India
so much, for everything! You have no idea what you are doing to
help all those beautiful mothers who literally lose their everything
along with themselves to bring the most precious gifts into this world." - Maria M, Ottawa, Canada
This course will give you the ability to create balance in your life and still maintain an amazing relationship with your child.
This powerful seven-week journey will guide you step-by-step towards being a joyful and grounded parent, with less stress and more peace than you're currently experiencing. Keep reading for an overview and details of what you'll get with this Essential Course for Busy Moms...
Ashley's 100% Money Back Guarantee
I'm so confident that this course will change your life, and the life of your child's, for the better. If for any reason after completing the 7 weeks, you're not happy with the material I will give you a refund no questions asked! The only condition is you have to experience the entire course. Within 30 days following course completion, you feel I didn't deliver what I promised and more, you get your money back.
The course is available as a HOME STUDY OR you can join one of our weekly FAQ calls.
The course calls are held once a week for 7 weeks.
Not only do I back up this series with a 100% money back guarantee, but I include the most important element to success: a community. You'll be engaging with a group of other women who are in the same place as you; they will support and encourage you along the way. If you read that last line and thought to yourself "I'm scared of people", don't worry, once you get on the call, you'll see that there's nothing to be nervous about.
These women and myself are with you, supporting you to be the mother and woman you love and are proud of. There were times in my life when someone suggested I try something out of my comfort zone, and I felt scared about giving it a try. But I went ahead and did it, and it made a huge difference in my life. Trying new things is scary, but it has the opportunity to change the course of your life, not only your life, but also your child's. If you'd like to free yourself from that heaviness you're feeling, you'll want to join us.
"Just want to say such a massive thank you to you for the information you sent me. So extremely helpful and everything you say is so accurate and easy to understand and all the questions you answer is exactly what I wanted to know. Brilliant. Thank you for your help, your site and information I'm now learning is a complete Godsend... thank you."
Becky; Peterborough, Cambridgeshire, UK
"I just downloaded your program a few days ago and am happy to say that it has already made a huge difference in my attitude towards my three and a half year old and his attitude towards me! It's a win-win situation!!! I'm learning each and every minute along the way of this beautiful parenting journey!"
Lindsey; Austim, Texas
Here are some other challenges the Busy Moms Guide to Awesome Parenting will help with:
Child Behavioral Issues: After participating in this course and using these principles, your child will stop biting, hitting, hurting, pinching, pulling and other destructive behavior. Constant Self-Doubt and Questioning: This course will drastically reduce the amount of questioning you do throughout the day. For example, no more "Is what I'm doing right?" "Why isn't he/she listening?" "When will this get easier?"
Punishing Your Child: After this course you won't need to use punishment with your child, you'll use parenting methods that are positive and effective, without the guilty and regretful side effects.
Rewards and Bribery: After the seven weeks you won't need to reward your child again. Believe it or not, if you use these principles, your child will want to co-operate, contribute and be helpful. Mommy Burn-Out and Fatigue: If you feel constantly exhausted or burnt-out with little time for you, that's about to change. This course not only provides you with the tools to significantly reduce the amount of stress in your life, but it also provides a community of women to share and connect with.
Emptiness and Isolation: Join a community of women and myself as we go through the same experiences you're going through you will feel connected, valued and social within our intimate group. Boring Life Syndrome: If you feel unfulfilled and empty despite the amount of things you DO, this course will help you feel full and satisfied. Here's what will happen after the 7 weeks... you will also:
Feel relaxed, rested and confident about the choices you're making and the parent you're being.
Be closer and feel more connected to those around you. You'll have an increased feeling of joy in your life and happiness with your child.
Accept your child for who they are and experience deep gratitude and appreciation for being with them.
Have your child's trust and they will share their innermost thoughts and feelings with you. You will experience authentic co-operation from your child.
Learn to parent in ways that FEEL right and true for you, and don't leave you feeling guilty or ashamed afterward.
Understand your child's misbehavior and why they do what they're doing, and how you can support them to become an empathetic and caring being.
Respond in even the most difficult and stressful situations.
And finally, have the relationship you want with your child - and feel good about the parenting choices you make.
"Life is so much easier since doing your program. All the info provided was so simple and easy and really does work. We weren't having major behavioral problems but it was definitely enough to stress me out and now it is over and I am HAPPY! Thanks."
Sarah; Gold Coast, Australia
Don't forget: if for ANY reason you're unhappy after this program, you'll get a 100% refund, so there's NO risk for you. This is the moment to go beyond that voice and take action!
"Ashley lives every word she teaches in this course. She is a parenting inspiration to me and a living example of healthy motherhood where both mother and child share an unshakable love, openness, and understanding of each others needs".
Anestis Lampsos, Ottawa, Canada
"As I work as a child psychotherapist, behavioral therapist, and neurology nurse specialist I am always keen to keep up to date with any different approaches for family therapy and child behavior. Your program is just great and the advice given is perfect. As a professional therapist I am more than happy to support the techniques and strategies you recommend." Joseph Grennell; Republic of Mauritius
Don't hesitate! Don't get up in your head, because fear, that voice in your head saying "Oh, I can't do it. I'm not strong enough. I don't have enough time, money ______ or ______..." this voice wants to keep you stuck it wants to keep you feeling safe. This voice is un-supportive in creating the life you want. It's time to go beyond the voice and take action. And don't forget, there's nothing to lose with my 100% Money Back Guarantee.
This is the moment to go beyond that voice and take action!
To place an order by phone call: 1.613.366.3762 Email: Ashley@BusyMomsParenting.com
Frequently Asked Questions:
What is an online course? We have developed an online course so you can be connected with a group of women who are sharing your same concerns in many different areas of the world. The course is done over the phone or through the Internet, whatever you prefer. You also have the 'Home Study' option which you can do at your own pace, from the comfort of your home. It's the exact same course, just pre-recorded.
Where and when is the course? The course is online and over the phone, all you need to access the course is a telephone and Internet connection. If you like, you can call from Skype on your computer. For the calls themselves, you just need your phone. To access the material in between the calls you need an Internet connection. You also have the 'Home Study' option which you can do at your own pace,
from the comfort of your home. It's the exact same course, just
The course is available as a HOME STUDY OR you can join one of our weekly groups below...
Tuesday, October 16th, 2012 at 8 p.m. EST / 5 p.m. Pacific (For those of you that live in Sydney (Australia - NWS) it's Wednesday, October 17, 2012 at 11 AM) (last course call is on November 27TH)
The course calls are held once a week for 7 weeks. Do I need any special equipment? The only equipment you'll need is a computer with an Internet connection and a phone. You can stream or download all of the audios. What If I change my mind about the course? If after the course you change your mind, I will refund your money 100% no questions asked. Refund requests must be made in writing within 30 days from completion of course.
About Ashley Ryan
Ashley began her inquest into different parenting philosophies at 21. At the time she was pregnant with her son. On an ordinary day, she met an interesting gentleman in a coffee shop who recommended she read some 'life changing' parenting books. Ashley bought the books and studied them arduously. These books changed the way she looked at life and parenting; they were her inspiration in 1999 to write The Happy Child Guide. The Happy Child Guide has helped thousands of parents all across the world to connect with their true hearts and parent in positive and meaningful ways, without the use of punishments and rewards. After writing The Happy Child Guide, Ashley and her son spent four years traveling. They lived in the U.S., Thailand and India. Ashley currently resides in Ottawa, Canada, with her son, partner and two rabbits.